every now and then, couples need to just have some time set aside for just the two of them, with no distractions, no kids (if they have any), no family, no one else, and just relax and renew their relationship. after my brother's birthday party, that's what sunday will be about. we really need it. also during our break, we are going to start setting aside about an hour or so during the week to just talk about what's going on with us more, and if there are any problems in our relationship or if we have any problems with each other. we've agreed that this time will be completely distraction free. no computers, no cell phones, just me and him. if we have to, we could just sit on the porch and talk. just somewhere that we could talk to each other in complete peace. if that means that we have to sit on the roof of one of our cars in the middle of a totally empty parking lot, then so be it. i really think that this will help renew our relationship. talking like we have for the past couple of days has helped a lot. we've promised to not hold anything back. if we had a dream about something or someone else, we'll talk about. after all, they're only dreams. (this pertains to an earlier blog titled Dreams). i have even told him about those dreams that i had about my ex, and he's told me his dreams, too. we've agreed to be absolutely honest with each other. after all, a good relationship is built on trust, truth, and the ability to forgive each other when it comes down to it, right??
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You are on some trapped in the closet type stuff but it is okay it is a good thing because I am still into it I am liking what I am reading so please keep this going when you are telling the truth or not this is really good if it means anything I am proud of you.
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